I found, as Hacker observed years before, that most wives want their husbands to be, first and foremost, conversational partners, but few husbands share this expectation of their wives.

我发现，正如哈克多年前观察到的那样，大多数妻子希望丈夫首先是谈话伙伴，但很少有丈夫对妻子有这样的期望。