Spender concludes that, in mixed classes, if the girls are as boisterous and pushy as the boys, they are considered "unladylike", if they are docile and quiet, they are ignored.

斯彭德总结说，在男女混合的班级里，如果女孩像男孩一样吵闹、爱出风头，就会被认为是“不淑女”；如果她们温顺、安静，就会被忽视。