And the problem, as you might feel, is that we were down, we were depressed, we were looking at him as a problem, not as a son, not from a positive perspective.

问题是，或许你能感觉到，我们很低迷，很沮丧，我们把他当作一个问题来对待，而不是一个儿子，不是从一个积极的方面。