The flip side of this is our great desire to change and improve on the way we were brought up - to show, not just to ourselves but to others as well, that we can be brilliant at it.

另一方面，我们的最大愿望是改变并改善我们所接受的教养方式——不仅向我们自己，也向他人证明，我们能在这方面做的更出色。