Her deepest hope is that by insisting upon perfection from her children in all things, like violin playing, she will be able to achieve, in her words, control: "Over generational decline."

她内心深处的希望是，通过执著地坚持让孩子在各个方面达到完美，例如演奏小提琴，她能达成这样一个愿望，用她的话讲，那就是“对家族的衰败的控制。”