Know that if your teen gets into hot water, he may be too embarrassed or afraid of your wrath and disappointment to tell you, even if you have a great relationship with your teen or — think you do.

了解你的孩子是不是遇到了麻烦，他很有可能因你潜在的愤怒与失望羞愧地不敢告诉你。即使你和孩子关系不错，或者你自己是这么认为的，这种情况也会发生。