If you've been issuing complaint after complaint, "flip to only giving compliments, so you have to focus on what you like about the other person instead of constantly shooting the other person down."

如果你一直只是不停地怨天尤人，“现在换成只赞美，不抱怨。这样你看到的更多的会是对方身上你喜欢的一面，而不是攻击数落对方直到两败俱伤。”