We hate hearing what do and many of my friends feel like they are being nagged, and our tendency when you nag us is to just not do whatever you are asking for.

我们讨厌听让我们做什么的话。我的许多朋友都感到当被唠叨的时候总有不去做你要我们去做的事情的倾向。在不停提醒和交谈中提出两者有微妙的区别。