Basically, weird and inhuman and mean as it sounds, and I don't mean for you to be cruel, but stop treating your mother like a human being. Treat her like the hazard she has become.

这个方法大体上听起来很奇怪，不人道而且心怀恶意，但我我可不是让你变得残暴，而是让你不再把你妈妈看成是一个“人”，把她当成一个危险物品就行。