You choose to be mean, impatient, angry, hurtful or to hold a grudge in the same way as you choose to be happy, grateful, thoughtful, patient and kind.

是你自己选择小气、不耐烦、生气、伤害别人，或者嫉妒。同样也是你自己选择快乐、感恩、体贴、耐心和慈善。