We've weighed so many decisions so carefully in raising our daughters—what school to send them to and what church to attend, when to give them cell phones, and with what precautions.

在抚养我们的女儿时，我们仔细权衡了许多决定——送她们上什么学校，上什么教堂，什么时候给她们手机，采取什么预防措施。